Why is it okay for men to grab at a woman? What do women need to do bring a watchdog or a man bodyguard/man friend with them everytime they go to bars? Is it that men can’t control themselves? Why are women more passive and men more aggressive in clubs and bars? Women sit back and watch a man walk by and might say, “damn, he look good” or “wow he’s hot” but may never make a move or might send a friend over to see if he is single. Moreover, men boldly walk up to a woman and try to buy her a drink or get her number or grab at her or just begin to dance with her uninvitedly. Is that behavior okay? Is it due to androgen and testosterone or is it just because men are pigs and they want what they want when they want it? Why do women have to make up excuses to get away from men but men usually don’t have to do the same? Some women particularly have a plan with their girlfriends on how she will get away from him if he is not what she expected when she gets up close or when she talks to him. That is especially the case on blind dates. Men however if they walk up to a girl and she is not cute or not what they expected they just walk away or just try to avoid her the rest of the night. On the other hand some males go on the date and act all nice to get through the night then just never call the girl again and try not to see her again. Sometimes they just blame their behaviors on their drinks. Some women do that too but not as much as men. Why blame everything they do a certain night on the fact that they were drinking? Is there mannerism and behavior really due to being intoxicated or is the drink another scapegoat? It’s possibly another way to get out of being responsible for their own actions.
Why is it weird for a woman to be at a sports bar? Do some men still consider the sports bars to be their own personal space to do just stuff that men do without the women folk? Is it their own personal sport sanctuary? Are women not supposed to like sports perhaps? Is the woman who decides to go into the sports bar then fair game to men because she’s venturing outside of the norm of most women not knowing much about sports or just not caring about it? Is it because in a place like that being around all those men then seeing a nice-looking woman come in, some men can’t help but to give her their attention?
